M.C. Escher, Angels and Devils
A major theme of the book I've just written (the one that will be out very soon) is evil vs. good. That sounds ominous and creepy, I know.
So let me explain: I was inspired a while ago by a famous TED talk that social psychologist Philip Zimbardo gave in 2008:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OsFEV35tWsg
In this talk, Zimbardo defines evil as the exercise of power to intentionally hurt people physically and/or mortally, to destroy people psychologically...and to commit crimes against humanity.
To me, this was spot on. It made me realize (not that I hadn't quite realized it before) that I had recently been affected by precisely this type of evil, by the use of power against largely powerless me (just a teacher) with the clear and relentless intention to hurt me--both in terms of my livelihood and psychologically.
The intention to hurt others (not accidental hurt; purposeful hurt) can only be described as evil. "Evil" sounds like a harsh word, but there is no other classification that fits. In fact, intentional, planned murder is first degree murder, the most heinous crime, and the one that comes with the stiffest penalty.
What I noticed in Zimbardo's talk is that he classifies watching evil being done to others, while sitting back passively and not saying or doing anything to stop it, as evil, too. It may not be the same severity of evil, but it is on the scale of evil nonetheless.
My college classes have recently been discussing good vs. evil, and several students remarked on the fact that people may not take action against evil because they are simply shocked.
This is true. Should we blame the shocked, passive witnesses to evil for the fact that they were stunned by what they saw? I don't think so (it only takes one person to try to stop the act of evil; it doesn't take everyone).
What about the cowards who say nothing because they fear reprisal, or difficulties if they get involved? That's another classic human response: to simply stay out of it.
Is saying nothing evil? It certainly can be. I do think that shutting up and letting someone get attacked is on the bad side of behavior, but I have empathy for people who are scared or worried about themselves or their own families (still, we should hope that someone out there is not a coward, shouldn't we?).
As I told my classes, when I was just a kid I stopped a bully from beating up a little boy. That act of bravery (or stupidity) then cost me four long years of being the bully's new victim. This guy used to chase me all over the place and once threatened to put firecrackers in my mouth.
Would I stand up to a bully like this again? I will be honest: I have had plenty of moments where I thought, "Life would have been much easier if I had not done that."
And yet, it is in my nature to speak out against even small acts of evil. It is who I am, and my humanity rises up, and I think: I can't let this happen to someone else; I just can't. So I speak out.
That's in my book. My memoir, Too Cool for School, is about my teaching, but it's also about blowing the whistle on evil. It's about daring to stand up for my values and intention and style and politics.
Anyone else who was there and who didn't dare to speak up to stop the attack on me, I cannot blame you...and yet, I do. I feel somewhat bad about this--it is very, very difficult to forgive and forget, because the truth is that I shouldn't have had to bear all the pressure by myself.
I know it's hard to stand up for others, though. I know it's scary. But just because it's difficult doesn't mean--in my opinion--it shouldn't be done. After all, letting evil happen to others and not trying to stop it only ensures that the same type of evil attack will eventually come for you...and who will be there to help you when you need it? Probably no one.
So--as I am often asked now--was it worth it? I say: if my story keeps someone else from experiencing a similar attack, then yes. If my story helps to prevent unwarranted persecution of other teachers, and if it sends a strong message to people who intentionally try to hurt others (or those in positions of leadership who sit back and let people such as myself get hurt), then yes: I did my job.
We all have to do our jobs, and a big part of the job of being alive is looking out for other people, and not standing by mutely when someone else is getting hurt. Another part is not intentionally hurting other people...
If we can do those very basic things, then no one can ever say that we are evil. Even if good and bad resides in all of us, and even if we are each only a hair's breadth away from using our power (in any situation) to commit an act of evil.